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Sometimes when I'm cleaning my house or working in the garden or cooking, I think of the woman who used to live in our house. When I washed the walls before we painted, I thought that she would be happy if she knew we were taking care of her house. When I watched the tulips and daffodils poke through the hard dirt this past Spring, I wondered how long they had been there and pictured her planting the bulbs, hands covered in dirt. When I made my first roast chicken in the oven for our friends for dinner, I was sure Anna would be happy to know that her oven still worked after two years of no use (and again to know that her smoke dectors also still worked). 

I even had some lofty idea of sending her some flowers this Spring from her garden. Maybe I should have.

Mrs. Pucci lived in our house for 41 years and raised her family there. When we tell neighbors we live in the Pucci's old house, they smile and sometimes tell us stories about Anna. Our trash cans still say Pucci and we still have the collection of every different size nail and screw you can imagine in the basement. I did throw out the ancient dried cilantro we found and the keys to the garage that was torm down before we moved in. And someday I hope to remove the safety rails from the bathroom and maybe figure out what to do with the blocks of lead in the basement. 

I hope Mrs. Pucci would be happy to know that we love her old house and that a new family has come to call it home.

Anna Pucci 1918-2009
 
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Reason #398456789 I love my iPhone - it took some half decent pictures this weekend at the beach when my regular camera crapped out on me. 

We went down to Ocean City, MD with TJ's family this weekend and came back last night. It was a nice little weekend away, but defintely way too short. 

Checklist for the weekend:
  • Dumser's Ice Cream
  • Kick TJ's ass at skeeball
  • Dough Roller breakfast
  • Thrasher's fries
  • Boat (for TJ)
  • Rum Runners
  • Playing in the ocean
We got there late friday night so we could get a full day in on Saturday. We started right in on our checklist in the morning and had breakfast at Dough Roller. After a very large meal, we decided that resting it off on the beach would be the best course of action. So, we laid in the sand by some really cool kites. I asked TJ to buy me this crab one and he said no. I thought it would like nice on our roof, he said it would make too much noise and drive the dog crazy. He's just too practical.


After resting up, we walked around on the boardwalk and went into the nearest arcade so we could get the skeeball asskicking underway. 


I tried to get a picture of my high score, but it changed over too fast. I set a new personal record, though (410) and beat TJ's high by 200 points. 

After some more fooling around at the arcade (including the way-cool photobooth pictures below), we left the beach to go meet up with TJ's parents at the house they rented. 


By the time we were all showered up and clean and had a few drinks in us, the rest of the family started to show up. We hung out for awhile before going off to find dinner. 


Sunday, we had an awesome breakfast made by TJ's dad and then headed out for some more beach time. The beach was packed and pretty hot, so we spent most of the time in the water. I don't think I've spent that much time in the ocean in years (I usually get freaked out by seaweed or something and lose my nerve). Tamara loved the water too and was so cute in the sand. She kept wanting to touch it, but then it would stick to her hands and piss her off. 

After we headed back and got cleaned up, we headed to a nearby racetrack to watch the horses and lose money. Tamara liked the big "dogs."


Afterwards, we headed to the boardwalk for more skeeball asskicking and Dumser's ice cream. I'm just a little pissed I forgot to wear my pedometer for the long walk... Oh, well. 

Yesterday, TJ's dad rented us a boat to play on for the afternoon. TJ wants to rent a boat every time we go to the beach, but pretty much always misses out, so he was pretty damn happy. 


While we were on the boat, Elmo suffered an unfortunate accident. No worries, he's ok now. Just probably needs to go through the washing machine.


Afterwards, we went out to dinner and Mary and I drank a few too many rum runners. It was a very good thing TJ volunteered to drive us home. I pretty much slept the whole way...

Meanwhile, Maddie is enjoying some quality time at Grandma and Grandpa's with her Aunt Molly. I can't wait to pick her up tonight

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A year ago today, I was in Athens. On the last day of my honeymoon. While I have to say this summer is a million times more relaxing than last summer, it would be really nice to be in Greece instead of my cube right now. 

I still have my calandar from last year. I think I might keep it for awhile. It's really funny to look back and see the millions of appoinments for dance lessons, meeting with the florist, getting my hair trial done, dress fittings, etc. Being married is so much more fun than being engaged. 

I didn't think I would feel that way. I thought I'd miss wedding planning and all the attention. But I am loving this summer.

We weren't really going to do much for our anniversary because we had a wedding picnic to go to (the downside of getting married on a holiday - we will probably spend every anniversary at some sort of bbq), but we ended up celebrating on the 3rd instead. 

We both had off work, so we bummed around the house for a little while, got bagels for breakfast (new favorite = french toast bagel) exchanged gifts (another thing we weren't going to do, but oh well). I gave TJ an Apple gift card to start his new laptop fund (not very romantic, but whatever) and three cards (I just couldn't decide!). He gave me a dandelion necklace made with little bronzed dandelion leaves. Very pretty, but I'm very paranoid I'm going to break it.

We took the train into the city for the ice cream festival at Penn's Landing. I have always wanted to go to this, so I was pretty much about to pee with excitement when I was handed my spoon and set loose in the ice cream tent. And then we ran into a wall of hungry, sticky people proudly carting around with piles of empty ice cream cups and were shoved every which way before we finally found our way to our first stand. 

It was pretty disappointing. By that point in the day, most of the stands were down to just vanilla and you had to wait forever to get it. We fought our way through to get a few little cups before deciding we'd rather just walk around Penn's Landing, so we left and got snacks at Auntie Anne's. I'm glad we went because I get very excited about the ice cream festival every year, and now I know I'm not missing anything. Oh, well.

Afterwards, we walked to South Street to do some window shopping and people watching. After an hour or two, we were ready to eat, so we walked to Tangerine and got there 30 minutes early for our reservation. They sat us right away, so it didn't really matter.

We had been there once before for restaurant week with Andrea, Bob, Karin, and Chris, but we had to pick off a limited menu. This time, we got way too much food haha. We started with the Meze Tasting (hummus, baba ganoush, roasted peppers, feta, egglant fritter thingy, salami, etc.) and drinks (peach sangria for me, lemon soda for TJ). I think that enough would have been enough food, haha. TJ got pork with pomegranite stuff on it and I got a steak for dinner. I don't usually order steak out, but this was amazing. Seriously, the best steak I've ever had. After we split some strawberry shortcake to make up for the ice cream disappointment earlier in the day. 

We headed up towards Independence Mall afterwards and sat outside for some of the Philly Pops concert before we decided to cal it a night. 

Pretty much a perfect day.
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Some pictures from Bonnaroo...

The horrible downpour as we left our hotel in Nashville on Thursday morning:



It cleared up a few hours later while we were waiting in a very very long line of traffic. Here, Robbie demonstrates how to never get your dad to lend him his car again:



We were kind of bored. What do Katie and I do when we're bored? Make people pose for ridiculous pictures:



Katie found a talent for hydrating people with a water gun (or just so thoroughly soaking you that some was bound to get in your mouth):



A rousing rendition of "Somewhere Over the Rainbow." I think this was like 4 hours in?



And out came Uno. There are now Uno cards all over my car. I found one in my glove box yesterday and one in a CD case the day before. PS - don't play Uno with Ron. He makes you follow the real rules...



Hours later, finally at Centeroo (I didn't take any pictures in between because I was not quite in a picture-taking mood and soaking wet):



It took us awhile to figure out what this was all about. At first we thought it was just people dancing to nothing just for the hell of it, but you actually waited in line and they gave you headphones to dance to. Pretty cool actually, but we never made it in there.



These port-o-potties were originally for our private use until they filled up the field behind us with campers on day two. They were still the cleanest, newest potties in the place, so we dubbed them the "luxury boxes"



Our lovely campsite, which was nice and shadey thanks to Mom and her lovely canopy:



Ron got a lot of compliments on this outfit:



Ever wonder what 700 acres of hippies would look like? Or what our future will look like if the unempolyment rate keeps going up?



Blanket man??



General craziness:



Beastie Boys:



More general craziness, plus big bugs that lit up at night:



We're freaking adorable



But not as adorable as Katie and Ron when they "air french?"



Says Robbie: "did you see the hooker?"


 
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Now that my blisters/sun poisening has almost cleared up and the angry ball of hate in my stomach has disolved, I'm feeling ready to blog about our wonderful Bonnaroo experience.

Let me just start by saying that I am, in spite of what might follow here, very glad we went and did have a lot of fun. I will also say that you'd have to pay me a whole lot of money to get me to ever go again. 

Short version:
  • Highs: Santigold, Elvis Costello, Bruce Springsteen, Phoenix, Al Green, Ted Leo, Beastie Boys, really good food (lots of mexican-inspired, fair-type foods), awesome people-watching time, Daily Show comedians, not getting sick after eating ice cream from Pickle Bob's after only being able to keep down saltines and gatorade for 24 hours.
  • Lows: Lots of rain, tornado watch/warning, 8 showers for 80,000 people, afore mentioned sun poisening, watching people do way too many drugs in front of their very young children, day stuck in Pigeon Forge, TN with stomach virus.
  • Total time spent in Toyota: About 35 hours
  • Phrases/words coined: luxury boxes (the clean, less popular port-o-potties), magic screen (TJ's iPhone), ball of hate (feeling in stomach when you need to vomit), rasharoo (sun poisening), bonnaflu (evil stomach virus).
Long version:

Since it did affect my vacation experience, I'm going to start with the weekend before we left for Bonnaroo. TJ was away at camp, so the dog and I had a lot of mother-daughter bonding time. That Saturday was pretty hot and I accidentally took her for too long of a walk (still learning my way around the neighborhood) and came home and gave her doggie ice cream to cool off. Several hours later, she had horrible, thick brown vomit all over the dining room floor. I figured it was just a combination of things just making her stomach upset and didn't worry too much about it. That night, I let her sleep with me since TJ was away. Around 3 or 4 in the morning, she woke me up by vomitting all over the hallway floor. I cleaned it up and then we cuddled until she fell back asleep. Sunday, I just gave her some rice and gatorade and she seemed much better. 

Crisis over. Until I was leaving for work Monday morning and she got sick all over the dining room again. I called the vet on the way to work and sorted things out so TJ could take her up that morning. Several hours and over $300 later, we learned that she had a parasite and were given 3 prescriptions and some canned food for her. Not a huge deal, but this meant my mom was hestitant to babysit Maddie because her puppy is so young. Some phone calls later and it was decided that Jelli would watch Maddie for a night so she could have an extra day on the meds before my mom picked her up. So, Monday was shot.

Tuesday night, TJ headed off to get his Dad's car (he was letting us borrow his SUV for the trip) and I packed. Katie, Ron, and Matt came over to drop off all their stuff and to load the cars. All we were missing was Robbie. Around 10 or 11, we found out he was at a 21st birthday party and wouldn't be there until late - so we told him not to come and wake us up, but to just get there in the morning by 6am. 

Woke up around 5am on Wednesday and started getting ready to go. TJ called Robbie to see where he was, but no answer. We found him sleeping in his car in our driveway - turns out, he got there late and just slept in his car. Not that big of a deal, excpet we had a 13 hour drive ahead of us that we needed him to be awake for. Not only that, but he didn't get his car fixed, so we ended up having to take mine and he got mad and threw a nerf football at TJ's face, breaking his glasses. As we would tell him when he drew a penis on the window of a McDonald's later in the trip, he's "so 20." 

We headed out and made good time getting through PA, DE, and MD. Virginia started to take forever, so we stopped off at a Waffle House for lunch and even met some fellow Bonnaroo-ers (from Boston). A few long hours later, we were finally in Tennessee. We met Katie and Ron at a motel (as we now know that the distinction between hotels and motels are the rooms opening up directly to the outside - the more you know, the more you grow) near Nashville. The next morning, we had what will probably now be my last meal at a Cracker Barrel ever (so sad), went food shopping at a Super WalMart, and then met up with Jimmy, his girlfriend Taryn, and their friend Austin (who had made the drive all the way down with them and didn't even have a ticket yet). 

Leaving Nashville (about 60 miles away from Manchester), we saw signs all over the place for Bonnaroo traffic. The exit we were supposed to get off of was blocked by cops, so we had to go several exits down before we could exit. On the way, we saw that traffic in the opposite direction was stopped, with a long line of cars parked on the side of the highway. We felt bad for the people waiting there, thinking we had lucked out and were coming from a less-traveled direction for Bonnaroo - little did we know that these people were the lucky ones. 

The next 8 or 9 hours were spent sitting on the side of the road for 30-40 minutes, driving 500 feet, and then sitting again. We amused ourselves with Uno, peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, football, washers, running into corn fields, water guns, playing on our cell phones, and drinking (well, the boys did anyway, Katie and I were too worried about having to pee). Ron also threatened to give blow jobs to anyone who cut in front of us in line, which he will probably never ever hear the end of. 

Around 9, we finally pulled into Bonnaroo! And it started raining. Then pouring. Then there was a tornado watch/warning and we told to stay in our cars. And we set up our tents in the midst of it, getting absolutely drenched in the process. At this point, we were all frustrated, exhausted, and pissed that we had pretty much missed a full day at Bonnaroo. Which made us really great people to be around, haha. 

At a break in the rain, TJ insisted we go find some real food, check out Centeroo and see Passion Pit, so we headed toward the bright lights and loud noises. Passion Pit was pretty good from what I heard, but we were mostly just trying to get our bearings, so we headed back after exploring a bit and, of course, it started raining again. Cold, driving, get-you-soaked-through-your-$1.29-Target-ponch rain. There was nothing to do except try to get as dry as possible and go to sleep. But not before TJ gave us all a good show by walking into the tent in nothing but his boxers, soaking wet, yelled "Watch Out!" and dropped trou because there was no where else even semi-dry to get changed. 

The next morning looked optimistic when the hot sun forced us out of our tent around 8am. After enjoying the bright blue sky for about an hour (just long enough to feel hopefull), it clouded over and turned gray. At least that meant we could nap...

So, we napped, ate Chef Ron's hot dogs and burgers, covered ourselves in suncreen and put on our standard issue, matching bandanas, courtesy of Katie, and headed out to Centeroo. The rest of the day was sort of whirlwind-esque and invloved a ferris wheel looking out on miles of tents, some of Animal collective, watching people get their entire bodies painted red, cooling off in a muddy fountain, dancing to Santigold, eating benevolent burritos, watching a guy with a full beard dressed in a hot pink moo-moo dance to Al Green, getting smooshed in a very fun crowd for Beastie Boys, catching a little bit of David Byrne, trying to stay awake for Phoenix, and then finally back to the tents for sleep.

Saturday was my birthday! Everyone at the camp site sang a rousing rendition of happy birthday, accompanied by a yukelale, which was what Taryn called, "the saddest happy birthday she had ever been a part of" haha. I decided all I really wanted for my birthday was a shower, so TJ, Katie and I set out a trek to find the showers, only to discover that they were about a mile away and that the line moved impossibly slow for the 4 stalls designated for women. Katie and I retreated to the handy sink station instead, washing up as best we could using my tank top (I had a bathingsuit on) and the sink. It was  gross, but felt wonderful.

Afterwards we went up to Centeroo to walk around and shop a little, see Elvis Costello, Bruce, the Daily Show stars (a lot of the comedians on the show, minus John Stewart), some of NIN, and some of MGMT before heading off to bed around 3 or 4am.

Sunday was an easy day, except for the blisters on my back and arms from the sun. We cleaned up the camp site and loaded the cars, headed up to Centeroo to see Ted Leo and walk around some more. Met up and headed out to take Katie and Ron to the airport in Nashville. 

After the airport, TJ and I went to hang out in the hotel and I took the best shower of my entire life. It's really bad when you can't tell what is a tan line and what is dirt when you're washing yourself....

We met back up with Robbie and Matt and ventured into downtown Nashville, which was overrun with crazy country fans for the CMA festival. We got food at a brewery, walked around to the kitschy souvinier shops and found a tank! The tank was in the middle of the street for some reason and it inspired Matt to do a photo essay (I'll have to post pictures of everything later).

The next morning, we got up bright and early for the 13 hour drive home. Fueled up the cars and headed to waffle house for some grease and coffee, where TJ and I were referred to as Robbie's parents (thanks for rubbing in my oldness two days after my birthday). We got on the road and everything was fine - until TJ decided we needed to stop an hour or so later.

10 minutes later, he's in the Kroger bathroom puking as I'm shopping for Solarcaine and ginger ale and Matt is vomitting in the parking lot. Well, that sucked, but on our way.

We made it another hour or so before we had to stop again. We then spent the next 2 hours hanging out on the porch of a Cracker Barrell while TJ, Matt, and I made frequent trips to the restrooms (and the bushes when TJ couldn't make it back inside).

I don't think I can ever eat at Cracker Barrell again. And it's not even their fault. 

While trying to figure out if we could drive anymore, I texted Katie to see if she or Ron were sick. Ron called me back 2 seconds later to tell me that they were in the hospital because Katie had been vomitting the entire night before. The doctor's said they thought she had a virus. 

Scared for what we might be in for and unable to drive too far, we hopped in the cars and pulled in at the Marriot down the street. Got a room and promptly passed out for most of the day, getting up only to drink ginger ale and then again when my stomach rejected the ginger ale. 

We drove home the next day and are all more or less healthy now. Needless to say, I get to pick our next vacation and it will include showers and umbrella drinks.


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And, finally, on the topic of Karin's wedding, I just wanted to post her toast here so I wouldn't lose it:

Andrea:

 

For those of you who don’t know us, I’m Andrea and this is Lauren, two of Karin’s friends and roommates from college. We were both so excited when Karin asked if we would want to give a toast today, but, since the three of us can’t do anything without checking with the others first, we thought we should speak together.

 

Lauren:

 

First of all, we’d like to just say thank you to Karin and Chris for asking us to share in their wedding day and letting us be a part of this happy occasion. It was truly an honor to stand with you at the beautiful ceremony earlier today. We’d also like to thank Karin’s parents, Susan and Bruce, and Chris’s parents, Stacy and Rich, for hosting us all here today.

 

Andrea:

 

When the three of us lived together in West Chester, we wrote a list of house rules on the wall of our apartment. While these were mostly just for fun, having had the experience of living with Karin, we would like to now amend these rules in order to give Chris some advice that we believe will lead to a long and successful marriage with Karin:

 

(L)1. Always have the kitchen stocked with mac & cheese

(A)2. If you see an overturned cup randomly placed on the floor, you are to promptly and properly dispose of the bug underneath it.

(L)3. A birthday isn’t a birthday without tequila, but make sure you have limes. Lemons are not a proper substitute

(A)4. Blankie stays in the bed with you. Period.

(L)5. Take-out Chinese food, wings, or Wendy’s can pretty much fix anything

(A)6. If you really don’t want to watch Blue Crush or Dirty Dancing for the millionth time, just call us and we’ll fill in. But you will have to deal with the million reruns of I Love the 80s, 90210, and Golden Girls.

(L)7. Always live within a 10-mile radius of Kohl’s and Starbucks.

(A)8. Don’t let her borrow your clothes unless you’re ok with them disappearing into the depths of her closet.

(L)9. Sometimes it’s easier to throw out dirty dishes and start over rather than trying to wash them.

(A)10. The remote is always Karin’s – she will use force if necessary.

 

Lauren

 

Being English majors, Karin and my writing abilities weren’t just limited to the graffiti on our apartment walls. We also took many literature and poetry classes together in school and often entertained each other by writing poetry about our teachers and friends, like the infamous serious “Ode to a Grecian (fill in the blank)” and “looking out on a freshly fallen cookie.” I think Karin might be expecting a custom-tailored poem for a special occasion such as this one, but seeing as how that poetry was pretty much terrible, Andrea and I decided that it would be better to read a poem that is very special to Karin and has meant quite a bit to the three of us over the years.

 

Andrea:

 

Thank you for being a friend. 
Travel down the road and back again. 
Your heart is true, you're a pal and a confidant. 

Lauren:

 

And if you threw a party, 
invited everyone you knew. 
You would see the biggest gift would be from me 
and the card attached would say, 
thank you for being a friend.

 

Andrea:

 

To Karin, thank you for being a friend, 

 

Lauren:

 

To Karin and Chris, may you know nothing but happiness as you travel down the road and back again.

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Karin and Chris's wedding part 2. 

After the ceremony, we loaded back into the limo bus for more champagne (bottle number 3 for the day?) and the short ride to the country club. 



When we got there, they were still setting up, but we got to peak at the cocktail area and see the cake!



Karin requested that no one do anything to doctor the following photo, haha.



We bustled up the bride and had yet another bottle of champagne and then the bride and groom went off for some more pictures. Karin showing off her bustle:



The groom looking very sauve:



Cute:



Guests started to arrive shortly after and we got to join the cocktail hour (yay for taking pictures before the wedding!). The food was awesome - mashed potato bar, pasta station, lots of passed stuff.

When it was time to go into the reception, Karin got to see what the guys had planned for the entrances. They had some left over props from Chris's bachelor party, so I ended up with some hot star shaped sunglasses on the arm of a man with a very large fake mustache, with Andrea on his other arm with a red and black feather boa. Behind us were two pirates, and behind them The best man, maid of honor, and blow up doll. I was worried what Karin's parents would think, but everyone was cracking up and had fun with it. My dad actually told me that we need to redo my wedding so we could all do some crazy for our entrances, haha. 







Karin and Chris danced their first dance to "I want to Grow Old With You" by Adam Sandler from the Wedding Singer - very cute.



Next were the toasts. Karin had asked Andrea and I to give one because her sister (maid of honor) was too nervous to do it and both best men and the groomsman were giving toasts and she felt under-represented. Andrea and I were psyched, but I'm a nervous wreck about speaking in front of people, so it was a little rough. I think it went over pretty well, though - we got a few laughs, esp. when we recited the theme song from the Golden Girls





The rest of the wedding was sort of a blur. The food was excellent and we had a ton of fun dancing.











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A little delayed, but pictures/details from Karin and Chris's wedding last weekend! 

The whole weekend was devoted to wedding stuff. I picked Andrea up on Friday after work and we drove to my parents' area (stopping on the way for some amazing ice cream - dress size be damned!). After running some errands to get last minute supplies, we had dinner with my parents and then worked on our toast. The next morning, we got up early to meet Karin for breakfast at Starbucks and to get our nails done. Karin was cute - talking like she had already had 5 cups of coffee, haha. At the nail place, she was cornered by a very strange woman who proceded to tell Karin her whole life story, complete with unwanted marital advice. 

After nails,Karin set off to the florist while Andrea and I went back to the house to begin the lengthy hair straightening process. Andrea's hair is extremely curly, so the whole thing took over 2 hours, some hair-cutting, flat ironing from me, and then reinforcements from Mommy. While I would kill for curly hair, it does make me appreciate my short hair, haha.

With the windows up to prevent any curling, we headed out to the rehearsal with our boys. The rehearsal was very quick (esp. compared to the Catholic ones I'm used to) and we were off to Chris's parents' house for dinner. Dinner was amazing (they made a TON of food) and we got to relax and hang out and practice some Greek dancing in the backyard. 

We headed back to my parents' house for some Wii and junk food (there was a lot of junk food last weekend - it's amazing I could zipper that damn dress) and toast practicing. 

Andrea and I got up early the next morning for all of the pre-wedding primping rituals and headed over to Karin's for breakfast, hair, makeup and pictures. Karin was in pretty good shape - a little hyper, but not too nervous. And she was wearing our birthday present to her:



Chris, being deemed the most romantic out of our men for the day, had left her a very sweet card to wake up to pointing her in the direction of her mailbox, where she found a beautiful pearl and diamond necklace and earrings. After ooh-ing and awe-ing, we got down to serios hair/makeup business. 

Andrea in rollers (after all that straightening!):



Karin looking like a worried Lil Bo Peep:



Ahh, much better:



Brides gotta eat:



Karin and her mommy:



Oh, yeah, brides gotta drink too:



After hair and makeup, the photographer showed up to start snapping some pics. He did a really nice job, but he was a little strange at first. He kept calling us from room to room, but then kicking us out so he could shoot Karin alone. By the end of the day, if anyone said "Ladies" the rest of us chimed in with "get out."

He took a bunch of group shots and portraits of Kars (including one of her getting ice cream from the ice cream truck - my idea, of course, and I'm insanely jealous there was no ice cream truck on my wedding day) and then left us to fool around on our own until the boys got there. 

The girls, all married hags, tear...



One of my favorite pictures from the day:



After some family shots with the boys and Chris's family, we headed out in our limo bus to Bucks County Community College for more pictures. It sounds odd, but they have a beautiful sculpture garden there. 

Some pics of the ride:

Chris with his women:



Pre-wedding toast:



The bride and groom:



The prettiest bridesmaids:



After pictures, we made a pit stop at Acme for saftet pins because one of the bridesmaids' dress broke. While we were waiting, Karin discovered the bag of props the guys had brought for our grand entrances into the reception. It's a good thing Karin has a great sense of humor...



Well, what wedding isn't complete without a blow-up doll??

At the wedding, the picture taking was turneed over to TJ and he got some great pictures. I *heart* our telescopic lense











So, I'm realizing how long this post is and that the pictures will probably freeze up computers, so I'm going to stop for now and do the reception pics as a second post. 
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I'm finding this dark, dreary afternoon more or less perfect. I just want to curl up on the sofa with my dog and some junk food (maybe leftover pizza? maybe takeout chinese - TJ won't be home, so the possibilities are endless!) and enjoy the thunderstorm. Just have to get through this last half hour of work...

For a short week, I feel like this week has stretched on forever. I just have no patience for this job anymore. 

Anyway, on to happier things. This past weekend was Karin and Chris's wedding. It was so much fun - what a whirlwind weekend! Karin was such a beautiful bride - probably the most princess-looking bride I've ever seen. I'll post pictures with more detail later because I'm too lazy to do it now. She and Chris are in the Bahamas right now and I'm insanely jealous

I've been trying to work out my own vacation plans for this year. We're heading down to Tennessee in two weeks for Bonnaroo (our tickets came yesterday!) and I'm really looking forward to it and sort of dreading it at the same time. I know it's going to be an amazing amount of fun, but in my head, I can't get over the 14 hour drive and camping thing. Once we actually start getting ready and head out, I know I'll get over it. It just seems like too much work to be a vacation at the moment.

Normally I like more adventure-type vacations, but lately I've been dying for a chance to lay on a beach with a really pretty drink. My parents are trying to plan a group Disney thing this year, so we can't swing the beach thing because of lack of vacation time. We're thinking of going to the Bahamas or something in the winter - any suggestions of where to go? I'm thinking all-inclusive so we don't end up dropping a ton of cash on food and drinks. 

Two minutes until 5. Thank god. This weekend should be good - it was supposed to be our do nothing weekend, but that never works out, does it? TJ is at a bachelor party tonight while I clean the messy house and maybe go out to dinner with my parents. Tomorrow, the dog is getting groomed, I need to plant the flowers hanging out on the front porch and do some laundry, we need to paint our new shed, and then we're going to see Anthony's band at night. Sunday morning, I'm off to Ikea with Jelli and then we're having a Bonnaroo planning meeting at our house. 

5:02 hooray! Happy Weekend!
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Random things since I haven't been updating lately:
  • I'm a graduate. You may call me Master:

  • I have a very cute dog (just like this picture and wanted to post it):

  • I got a new tattoo. The picture was taken on an iPhone when it was still very fresh (or maybe even in progress), so it looks a bit nicer now. It is definitly my favorite.

  • Karin's Bachelorette Party was quite the sucess. We got hotel rooms in Philly, took her out for dinner in China Town, and then to Helium Comedy Club to see Hal Sparks and had some typical embarressing bachelorette games/drinking throughout. Karin in her gear:


  • Speaking of Karin, her wedding is this weekend and I'm so excited for it! Andrea and I are having a little sleepover at my parents' on Friday night and then going out to do some pre-wedding stuff with Karin on Saturday before the rehearsal and then Sunday is the big day! Just hoping the rain holds off...
  • My cousin's wife is pregnant - this brings the grand total of pregnant women and women trying to be pregnant I know up to 10 or something ridiculous like that. I was just looking at someone's baby registry and I go from, "oh, how cute" to "eww, god, why would you want one of those" in about 3 seconds flat. I guess I'm still not ready - it's good to do a gut check every once in awhile.
  • Work sucks. 'nuff said.
  • Bonnaroo is coming up really fast! I looked at the schedule the other day and have no idea how to even try to decide who to see. How do you pick between Lucinda Williams, Al Green, and Ani DiFranco?
  • That's enough bullet points for today. Don't want to over-indulge.
 
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I passed my thesis! Hooray!!

I sort of knew I would after talking to my advisor over the past few weeks, but there's something about knowing it for sure - I almost cried when I saw the email last night. 

So, now I just need to wait for grades to roll in next week (I'm thinking an A in Modern Novel and an A- in Legal Issues), enjoy graduation and then pick a new route to work so I never have to look at Rosemont again. 
 
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I really do not feel like being at work today - it is just far too nice out. Trying to finish up thesis this weekend is going to be hell with it being sunny and 80 degrees out. I just keep reminding myself that this is the last beautiful weekend that I'm going to have to spend cooped up in my office writing about digital publishing ever and that the spring and summer will be filled with other beautiful weekends that I can actually enjoy.

 

I walked out of class on Wednesday night sort of disgruntled that I had to watch the movie version of The Sun Also Rises in a really uncomfortable desk chair and I didn't realize until I walked down all three flights of steps and was about to go into the parking lot that I'd never ever have to go into that building ever again. Still doesn't feel right - I wonder how many times I'll pull into that parking lot on the way home by accident (I pass Rosemont on my normal drive).

 

I never have to eat another brown bag lunch in my car while stuck in traffic (I have become a master at driving and eating with a spoon at the same time) or kill time in the parking lot by playing tetris on my phone or read a book I don't want to (or worse, write a paper about it).

 

I was wondering if it was worth it. I'm not sure yet. It was a lot of hard work and a whole lot of frustration to pretty much put me back where I started not knowing what I want to do, just with more credentials this time. I'm glad I didn't drop out, but I wish I had waited and gone to a different program when I have some more direction. I think the best thing to come from all of this (so far) is that I got to meet a lot of very interesting people doing things I've never really thought about before.

 

Whatever else happens, it's just going to be really nice to not have this hanging over my head any more. Just have to get through this weekend.

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I can't decide if the recent trend of beautiful weekend days and then rainy, dreary week days is good or bad. We at least get to not be at work when it's sunny and 70 degrees, but cold and rainy doesn't motivate me either - I really just want to be curled up in bed.

 

This weekend was so beautiful! So beautiful, in fact, that I was motivated to write an entire 10-page paper before 4pm on Saturday, so I could still go outside and enjoy some of it. So, Saturday we headed off to Home Depot to buy a dogwood tree, some other assorted garden stuff, and a shed. The shed won't be installed for a few weeks, but we planted the dogwood in the front yard and put in some stepping stones from the driveway to the front door so maybe we won't kill all of the grass in front of the house. We still need to mow the lawn, but we're waiting for a free mower from my aunt.

 

This week is finally my last week of classes. It feels completely unreal. This weekend will be thesis-central while TJ is away visiting Nick up in Ithica and then that's it. I can't believe it's actually going to happen with all of this shit they've put me through.

 

I guess I shouldn't jinx myself now, though - who the hell knows what new torture they have waiting for me before I get to graduate next month...

 
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I'm not sure if it's spring fever or senoritis, but I don't want to do anything productive these past two days! I had a good start this morning, but my attention span is totally shot. I just want to go play outside.

 

I think part of the problem is the amount of relief I feel over still being able to graduate next month - for some reason that's making me forget I still have a shitload of work to do before that can happen.

 

So, to motivate myself, updated countdown/to do lists from last month:

 

Countdowns:

  • 5 days until my last class EVER (esp. now that TJ has forbid me from ever going after another degree haha)
  • 12 days until thesis is due
  • 12 days until Bruce
  • 29 days until graduation (and tattoo??)
  • 45 days until Karin and Chris's wedding
  • 60 days until we leave for Bonnaroo

To do:

  • Read The Sound and the Fury (started this last night - might need to cliffs notes it. It's very slow going and I just need to be able to hold my own in an hour long class discussion).
  • Write 10-12 page paper on a modern novel from class (this weekend's project - I think I'm going to write about the female characters in The Sun Also Rises and The Great Gatsby)
  • Write/Edit thesis to bring up page count from 30 to at least 35-40 of really good work or 50 pages of first draft quality work (deal struck with my advisor so I can still graduate on this one)
  • Get bridesmaid dress altered and pick up wedding shoes
  • Get wedding gift
  • Make tattoo appointment!
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I've decided on a graduation present to myself, as it seems I'll actually graduate in May now despite what I wrote here on Monday. I'm going to get a new tattoo! I'm thinking of a wishie on the top of my left foot - the stem sort of off to the left side, the flower part in the top middle, and then little seeds floating off to the right. Probably all in dark green (like army green), or maybe with a little light green mixed in. 

 

I was originally thinking of something more floral, but couldn't really find anything I liked. Since it will be more visible than my other two, I just wanted something simple and feminine. Dandelions make me think of summer and childhood - and, looking them up, seem to simbolize a variety of good things, including wishes come true, faithfullness, happiness and possibly even the unofficial symbol of gay weddings (who knew?).

 

Some ideas:

 

 

 

 
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Rest in peace, Harry - Baseball will never be the same in this town.

 

 

Kalas got to live his dream

 

This story was first published on Jul 28, 2002

 

NAPERVILLE, Ill. - Carol Drendel recalled the long-ago date when a young Harry Kalas, his blond crew-cut Brylcreemed to a perfect ridge in front, took her to a drive-in movie in his father's Packard.

 

"He just sat there the whole night," she said, "and pretended he was announcing a baseball game. "

 

Her husband, Gib Drendel, remembered the hard-of-hearing world history teacher at Naperville Community High School in Kalas' junior year.

 

"In that class, to entertain everyone, Harry used to cup his hands around his mouth and pretend to be announcing a Washington Senators game," Drendel said. "He'd go, 'Here's the 3-2 pitch from Cam-il-o Pas-cual. ' "

 

A half-century ago, Naperville was a small town. Many of its 7,000 residents worked at Kroehler Manufacturing Co.'s massive furniture factory and lived on quiet, tree-shaded streets, some of which ran near the wide banks of the DuPage River. It was, looking back anyway, a kind of malt-shop Valhalla.

 

"During the 1950s," reads a town history written in 1981, "Centennial Beach, the YMCA, summer band concerts with ice cream socials were Naperville's prime public recreational offerings. "

 

Few would have believed that by 2002 its population would be swollen to 133,000. Fewer still could have envisioned the disappearance of the surrounding dairy farms and forests as Naperville transformed itself from Main Street to Main Line, becoming a yuppie haven for Chicago commuters.

 

But no one who knew him back then would be the least bit surprised that Harry Kalas became a legendary baseball broadcaster.

 

"Harry got to live out his dream," said Gib Drendel, a family-law attorney in nearby Batavia. "How many people can say that? "

 

His deep-voiced destiny was so clear to the rest of the 109 seniors in 1954 that someone at the high school's yearbook, the Arrowhead, placed these prophetic words alongside the photo of the blond kid with the impish smirk:

 

"Harry Kalas . . . Future Sports Announcer. "

 

"Harry loved baseball, and he had this big loud voice," said classmate Gene Drendel, Gib's cousin, a retired school administrator who still lives here. "We all knew he was going to be announcing sports somewhere someday. We just assumed it would probably be in Chicago. "

 

In the days leading up to Kalas' induction today into the broadcasters' wing of the Baseball Hall of Fame, longtime residents here recalled fondly the tow-headed teenager whom, because of his diminutive stature through most of high school, they called "Pots. "

 

The friendliness, tearful sentimentality and broadcasting gifts that are Kalas' hallmarks were born here in this Ozzie and Harriet community, nearly 30 miles west of Chicago. Harry Kalas at 66, in fact, is not much different from "Pots" Kalas at 16, say his Naperville acquaintances, right down to his fondness for a postgame cocktail and a cigarette.

 

"He has stayed the same through the years," said Jeanine Warnell, a retired Naperville Community teacher who introduced Kalas to public speaking in her sophomore English class. "He was just one of those students I've never forgotten. I'm so proud of him. "

 

Kalas was described as a bright and good-natured boy who swam with friends in the local limestone quarries, consumed square scoops of ice cream and drank "Green Rivers" (lime juice and soda water) at a riverside drive-in called Prince's Castle, watched Western movies at the Naper Theater downtown, and starred - in drag - in his senior class play.

 

He also was the son of a preacher, though as those same friends point out, that hardly qualified him as an angel. One look at Kalas' yearbook photos reveal that this 1950s teenager must have admired James Dean as well as Dizzy Dean.

 

His blue jeans were rolled up roguishly at the bottom. He wore a defiant crew cut and had a mischievous grin. Like many of his classmates, he smoked at the soda shops and ice-cream parlors, snuck a couple of beers on weekends, and loved to play poker in the basement of Gene Drendel's Washington Street house during school lunch breaks.

 

"Harry was . . . well, Harry was a real fun-loving guy," said Gib Drendel. "Still is, from what I understand. I'll always remember the night we sat in a car outside his house and made bets on whether or not he would be able to walk into his house without falling down. He fell flat on his face short of the door.

 

"But he wasn't a bad kid. He was a wonderfully friendly person and had absolutely no pretense about him. "

 

At school, where his more-serious older brother, Jim, had been president of the Class of 1951, Kalas was a student council officer as a freshman - helping to plan the "Shamrock Shuffle" St. Patrick's Day Dance - a member of the journalism club, a backup linebacker on the football team, and, with his prematurely booming voice, a fixture in the class plays.

 

"I can still see him in that long black dress as the lead in Charlie's Aunt his senior year," said Warnell, who directed those plays. "He was just marvelous in the part. And so funny. "

 

In class, he was a somewhat indifferent student whose passion, from a very early age, was clear: sports.

 

"Harry loved sports. He knew all the different sports and all the different announcers," Gene Drendel said.

 

And from the day his father took him to old Comiskey Park to see a White Sox-Senators game, and Washington star Mickey Vernon escorted him into the dugout, baseball headed the list.

 

Alone in the handsome brick corner home the Kalases occupied at 153 N. Julian St., young Harry would occupy himself for hours playing Ethan Allen's All-Star Baseball, a board game in which the outcome of a player's at-bat is determined by the spin of a dial.

 

Not surprisingly, Kalas soon began to announce those games. Friends say that, even then, he sounded professional. He had inherited his father's deep, pulpit voice.

 

Harry H. Kalas was a Methodist minister. He moved his wife and two young sons here from Chicago's North Side during World War II to teach in the seminary affiliated with North Central College, a church-run school just a few blocks from Kalas' boyhood home.

 

"All the cliches you hear about the minister's son, they were all true in Harry's case," Gib Drendel said. "Harry liked to have a good time. "

 

Kalas was a backup linebacker on coach C. Weston Spencer's team, which won 12 games over his junior and senior seasons.

 

"He was a heck of a basketball player, too," said Gib Drendel. "He grew real late, so he was always too small for the varsity. But I remember that he led the intramural league in scoring. "

 

After graduating from Naperville Community in 1954, Kalas went to Cornell College in Mount Vernon, Iowa, another Methodist-run institution.

 

There, early in the first semester, a blind speech professor heard Kalas' voice in class and was struck by its resonance.

 

"He said to Harry, 'Son, you've got to become an announcer,' " recalled Gib Drendel, who along with two other Naperville graduates attended Cornell with Kalas.

 

But Kalas chafed under that church-related colllege's strict discipline, and - apparently with some encouragement from Cornell officials - transferred to the University of Iowa.

 

There, he began to broadcast the games of several Hawkeyes teams and was smitten. Drafted into the Army after graduation, he was lucky enough to be stationed at Schofield Barracks in Hawaii.

 

Hearing that Bill Whaley, a onetime Pacific Coast League pitcher, owned the South Pacific cocktail lounge downtown, Kalas went there one night for some beer and baseball conversation. It was a life-changing night.

Whaley told Kalas that big-league broadcaster Buddy Blattner was due at the bar in a few hours. Blattner told the young private that the Sacramento Solons of the PCL would be moving to Honolulu that year.

 

Kalas applied for the broadcaster's job and got it, submitting a tape from a Minnesota-Iowa game. And since the season started in April and he wasn't due to be discharged until July, he convinced the Army to grant him an early dismissal.

 

He announced Hawaii's games for several years on KGO-AM, recreating road games from wire-service accounts. And then, in 1965, he landed a job with the Houston Astros. Six years later, he and Veterans Stadium debuted in Philadelphia. The former has held up considerably better than the latter.

 

"It's been quite a career when you look at it," Gene Drendel said. "All those years of minor-league and major-league baseball. All those years in Philadelphia. All those commercials and NFL Films things he does. It's amazing.

 

"And to think he started out right here in Naperville. "

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I think I should be a stay at home doggie mom. I miss my dog sitting at my feet squeaking her ball all day while I do work. Either that or she should just get to come to work with me. It would definitely liven things up here a bit.

 

I took off last week to work on my thesis and other projects. It was a very productive week, but maybe not enough? I wrote a 7-page paper on Slaughterhouse-Five, got my car inspected, did a shit-ton of research and wrote 30 pages of my thesis, cleaned the house, did laundry, finished reading The Great Gatsby, and babysat my parents' dog, Molly. 

 

Huh, listing it out like that does make me feel accomplished, but I'm still having trouble seeing the light at the end of the tunnel here. I need to write a 10-12 page paper and read The Sound and the Fury this week and then finish the last 20 pages of thesis next week. And still, my professor isn't sure that will give him enough time to grade.

 

We're going to discuss it tomorrow and if he says that won't work, my plan is probably just to cry and hyperventalate until he agrees to it. If that doesn't work, I guess I'll be graduating in December.

 

That wouldn't be so bad I guess, but I just really feel like I need to be done. This has just taken up too much of my life for the past three years and I'm so ready to move on.

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Oh, man, today needs to be over. It's just a rainy, dreary day and everyone's mood seems to reflect that.

 

I'm on vacation for 9 days starting in 2 and a half hours. It's not much of a vacation since I'll be writing my thesis during that time, but I'm still looking forward to not being here for a little while. I just need a break from the atmosphere. It'll be nice to sleep in a tiny bit, walk the dog everyday and just research and write my ass off all week. This thesis has been hanging over me for months, so I'm actually sort of excited to tackle it (I'm sure that feeling won't last long, haha).

 

This weekend should be fun - tomorrow is Karin's bachelorette party and the details are a surprise, so I can't go into it just yet, but I'm very excited.

 

We had the shower last weekend and it went really well. Karin's sister had done most of the planning for it, so I didn't really know what to expect, but she did a really great job and Karin seemed really happy. And of course, I have pictures

 

Centerpieces:

 

Favors:

 

M&Ms:

 

Andrea did an awesome job on the prizes:

 

Just some of the millions of gifts:

 

Karin arriving:

 

Karin and her maids:

 

Karin and her mom and sisters:

 

Of course, the bow hat:

 

Karin, Andrea and me:

 

Oh, and before the shower, I got to meet my new little sister, Molly!

 

 

Maddie is not so sure about her new Aunt Molly, but they're getting there. TJ and I are babysitting Molly while my parents are away next weekend, so they'll have some bonding time then.

 

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